It is the first time for June to attend a Hari Raya celebration in Faizal’s house. Due to the hot weather, June wore only spaghetti strap and a pair of shorts to his house. In addition, it was a joyous occasion so June decided to buy some food to his house. June bought a packet of drumsticks and headed straight to Faizal’s house.
When Faizal opened the door, he was shocked to see June dressed so skimpily. He scolded June for her carelessness but forgave her for it as it was the June’s first time attending such a celebration. Then, when Faizal’s parents saw June in shorts, they shook their head and were really angry and Faizal was scolded by his parents. June felt sorry for her stupid mistake of dressing casually instead of dressing to the occasion. The misery did not stop right there for June. June presented the food to Faizal’s parents and to their utter disbelief, it was not Halal as they cannot find a Halal sign on the packaging. Faizal’s parents got so furious that they asked June to go home immediately. June felt so disappointed at her own actions that she cried and left the house.
From the above scenario, we have several things to take note. One is to know the culture and values of others. For June’s case, she should have asked Faizal whether wearing spaghetti strap and a pair of shorts is alright. She just takes it for granted that it is okay. In Malay tradition, girls should dress decently instead of skimpily because it is a sign of disrespect for the elderly. Secondly, she should have called and asked Faizal whether it was alright if she bought food that is not Halal. For Malays, they only eat food which are Halal. Halal means permissible. An animal or poultry has to be slaughtered in a ritual way known as Zibah then it can be considered Halal. If she had called and clarified with Faizal, this incident would not have happened. Lastly, June should not leave the house, instead she should apologize to Faizal and his parents and everything will be fine. In this way, it would repair the bad feelings between them.
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